Note: We are republishing this story, which originally made headlines in March 2024.
Kourtney Kardashian Sparks Buzz After ‘Autosexuality’ Topic Resurfaces on Poosh
Kourtney Kardashian Barker has reignited conversations about autosexuality after her lifestyle brand, Poosh, brought renewed attention to the concept on its website. The idea — which centers on being sexually attracted to oneself and deriving arousal from one’s own image or erotic energy — first appeared in a 2020 Poosh article.
Now, fans are taking notice once again, speculating whether Kourtney might be subtly hinting at a personal connection to the subject. The discussion has fueled curiosity and sparked dialogue about what autosexuality really means — and who it resonates with.
The article opens with a provocative question: “Are you autosexual?” — and answers almost immediately: “Most likely, yes. In fact, most of us are, at least to some extent.” But what does it really mean to identify as autosexual?
To shed light on the concept, Poosh tapped into expert insight from Casey Tanner, founder of QueerSexTherapy. Tanner defines autosexuality as “a trait where one becomes aroused by engaging with their own erotic self.” In other words, it’s about feeling turned on by your own presence, energy, and self-image.
Tanner explains that autosexuality is deeply personal and varies from person to person. For some, it can be a quiet confidence; for others, a powerful sense of erotic self-awareness. Either way, embracing this trait can lead to stronger self-esteem and even improve romantic and sexual relationships with others.
According to Tanner, autosexuality can show up in surprisingly everyday moments. It might be as simple as admiring your reflection, dressing up just to please yourself, or indulging in a scent or touch that sparks personal desire. Even common self-care rituals — like slipping into lingerie just for you or dancing alone in front of the mirror — can be subtle expressions of autosexuality.
Tanner emphasizes that many people engage in these behaviors without realizing they’re connected to this concept. Crucially, she notes, this kind of self-directed intimacy is completely natural — and rather than taking away from a partner-based sex life, it can actually deepen personal confidence and enhance connection with others.
Interestingly, the Poosh article also delves into the lingering stigma surrounding autosexuality. Many people shy away from the concept, fearing it might come off as narcissistic or overly image-focused. But Tanner pushes back against that narrative, arguing that embracing autosexuality can actually strengthen both self-worth and intimacy with a partner. “It’s about confidence, not conceit,” she suggests — a mindset that promotes self-awareness and emotional connection.
Kourtney Kardashian Barker, who tied the knot with Blink-182 drummer Travis Barker last year, has long been celebrated (and sometimes criticized) for pushing boundaries — both in fashion and in life. Just last month, the couple stirred controversy over their Halloween decorations, which included skeletons arranged in risqué poses. While some fans praised the edgy humor, others were quick to slam the display. One critic wrote, “That skeleton position? Really?” while another scolded, “You have children, and you think this is appropriate? Tacky.”
Still, whether through her lifestyle brand or bold personal choices, Kourtney continues to spark conversations — and perhaps, in subtly spotlighting autosexuality, she’s encouraging others to reflect more deeply on the relationship they have with themselves.
The couple, who welcomed their son Rocky earlier this year, are no strangers to public displays of affection or living boldly on their own terms. Whether Kourtney intended the resurfaced Poosh article to reflect her own experiences or simply aimed to spark dialogue around self-intimacy, one thing is clear: the Kardashian-Barker way of life keeps fans intrigued, inspired — and always talking.